Ella Marie: Week 1

On June 4, Jill started having contractions in the afternoon while still at work. They were pretty mild and spaced far apart, so she stayed at work and even went to water aerobics afterwards. She really started to feel them at aerobics and by the time she got home, she suspected she was in early labor. We went ahead and ate dinner like normal and tried to stay calm and collected. But we did manage to get he house completely ready for company and pack a bag for the hospital.

Jill was up most of the night with contractions that were between 5 and 10 minutes apart. By 6 in the morning, they were consistently 5 minutes apart, so we decided it was time to head to the hospital. But on the way there, the baby must have started chickening out, as the contractions stretched back to 7 minutes apart. We checked in and waited an hour to see if labor was progressing. It wasn't and they sent us home. This time they said to wait until the contractions were 3 minutes apart.

We had a very long day at home, although Keith did fertilize the lawn to keep his mind off of the labor. In the middle of the afternoon, the contractions really started to get painful and started to get closer together. By 6:30, they were 3 minutes apart, so we fed the dogs and headed back to the hospital. We were excited to see one of the members of our Lamaze class was the resident on call for the labor and delivery section. He stuck with us and talked us through everything that was to transpire that night.

Jill was still only 3 cm dilated, but 100% effaced. Her doctor came by very quickly and said that they would break her water to move things along. We did go ahead and get the epideral before they broke the water. By 9 pm, the water was broken and things really started to move quickly. Jill immediately went to 4 cm dilated and zero station. Keith cat napped as was possible, but by midnight, Jill was 9 cm and getting close. At 12:30, she was fully dilated and in active labor, but the doctor decided to let her rest a bit and "labor down", which would help the baby move down without pushing. At 2 am, the pushing started. Unfortunately, that is all that started. The baby never budged. By 4 am, we were all very tired and the baby was making no progress. Someone said "failure to progress" and we started to discuss a c-section. We agreed that at this point it seemed to be the best option.

Things really started moving then. By 4:30, we were moving to surgery. Keith stayed with Jill on her side of the curtain, but did peek over at 5:02 am and was the first to see that the baby was a girl. Everything went very well, even though Keith somehow lost the ability to get enough oxygen and was escorted to recovery a little early :) Jill and Ella Marie joined him shortly, though, and we were able to spend some time together. Jill's mom, Joan, upon hearing of the c-section, packed a bag and started the drive from St. Louis. She arrived just in time to help us through the hospital stay and our first week at home.

 

In recovery from the C-section

Staying warm in recovery

Jill testing Ella in recovery

Grandma arrives!

Some awake time in the hospital

That's not a scream, its a yawn

Three generations!

Grandma gets some time with Ella sleeping

Kim came up from Oklahoma on Saturday, our first day back home

She was so good those first few days

Sleeping angel

Who does she look like?

 

 

 

 

The flowers from the hospital

Jill gets her first beer (thanks Rich!)

Limp baby

Mom gets some couch time

First sponge bath

Keith's mom and dad make the drive up from Houston to stay a few days